3 Ways To Deal With The Apathetic Silence Of YouTube

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YouTube Video ViewsBack when I was in a band we practiced in my parents’ basement or garage. With Roger thumpin’ the bass and Bob pounding a drum, we got some attention! Other than the occasional police presence (for noise complaints) our fan reach was limited to about two blocks.

Of course, today with a simple video camera and a YouTube account your reach is MUCH further.

But do you sometimes still feel like you’re playing in the basement for no one? You’ve gone through all the trouble to set up a YouTube account and learn some basic video editing tricks to share your latest song. You primped your hair and put on your best shirt. Maybe you even practiced in front of the mirror before you hit record. Hey, there’s no shame in it!

But two weeks after hitting ‘upload’ you still only have 13 views. And 11 of them were you checking to make sure your video still plays! Where are all your fans? Why haven’t you gone viral?

Well the harsh truth is…

YouTube (and other social media for that matter) is filled with apathetic silence.

Most people wouldn’t  consider silence to be a critique. But as an artist you crave feedback. It’s hard to produce your art in a vacuum. But a big part of being an artist is learning to live with criticism in whatever form it takes.

Sometimes I think it’s easier to deal with trolls and people spilling hate than chilling silence. It’s discouraging. I’m not creating music anymore, but I’ve written enough blog posts and produced enough podcasts to sympathize.

I’ve produced THE podcast episode. You know, the one I thought would forever alter my destiny. The content that would finally catapult me from the depths of darkness to meteoric heights! In fact, I’ve had that feeling multiple times. Over and over again. Only to be disappointed over and over again. Here’s how I deal with apathetic silence.

Have a support system

Let’s face it, banging your head against the wall hurts! Sometimes you need someone to hand you an aspirin.

There are many ways for someone to lift you up after a defeating YouTube post. Your Mom can tell you you’re special, your spouse can give you a reassuring hug or a friend can tell you to keep your chin up. While these are all great and make me feel better, I know they aren’t real. I desire outside perspective.

That’s why I’m a big believer in having a coach. Over the years I’ve had many coaches for many different purposes. I’ve had a trainer to help me get in better shape. I’ve had a sales coach to help me learn cold calling. I’ve had a marketing coach to help me better spread my message. But at the core of all of them I really desired two things – Motivation & Accountability.

The hardest person to motivate is yourself. It’s much easier to lift up a friend or to see what’s wrong with your spouse’s situation than to look in the mirror and fix that! I really need help here. And when things don’t seem to be going my way it gets harder and harder to keep moving forward. My coach is there to dust me off and send me back in the game. He’s also there to make sure I produce my next piece of content even though I’d rather do anything else. Left to my own devices I might just blow it off. But I don’t like telling someone I didn’t do what I promised.

If you don’t want to spend money on your own personal coach, start a peer group. Some people call them masterminds or roundtables. Whatever you call it, it’s good to find fellow artists with the same struggles. I’ve been in an informal marketing group for four years. We get together about once a month to help each other overcome our struggles and to share what we’ve learned about marketing. It’s a great way to keep the demons from your door!

Remember Your ‘Why’

When things get low I return to why I want to do this in the first place. For myself when I release a new post to the sound of one hand clapping I remember I have a larger goal than one post. In order to create a shift in music marketing and change the fundamental attitudes about music and its value in today’s world, it’s going to take more than one well-crafted blog post.

For most musicians I know riches and fame are not on the top of their list. Usually I hear things like ‘I need to create’ or ‘I do it for me.’ Whatever ‘why’ means to you, go back to the beginning and keep a realistic perspective about your not-so-well-received YouTube video. Your ‘why’ should move you forward and keep you from obsessing about the apathetic silence.

After all, your ‘why’ is the reason you get out of bed in the morning. It transcends money and fame. It’s your purpose for being. If you’re in touch with your ‘why’ then a few bumps in the road shouldn’t get you down.

Do Some Soul Searching

This last one might be a little hard to hear. But here it goes…

Sometimes you need to ask yourself if there’s a reason no one’s responding and sharing your YouTube video. Maybe it sucks… ow.

Recently I got to experience this with a four minute video I made to explain the purpose of Only Sky Artist. I released it to worse than silence. I heard groans. I produced the video and then sent it out to some of my trusted mastermind friends. The responses I got back were not encouraging. Almost everyone said it sucked.

Well, they were much more polite, but they all meant the same thing. I took in all the criticism and then asked myself if they were right. And I had to agree. My video didn’t live up to my standards. It was a sub-par effort that wasn’t doing my brand any favors. Ouch, ouch, ouch!

Even though it’s pretty bad (think Plan 9 From Outer Space bad) I’ve decided to take one for the team and leave it up for you to see as an example of what happens when you get too close to a creative project. I’m sure you will agree it doesn’t exude professionalism.

Here’s a link if you’re feeling brave. 🙂  Sorry. I took it down since I wrote this.

While the feedback I received was certainly a blow to my ego, I learned that my friends hold me to a higher standard than I sometimes hold myself. (See point number one again) And that’s a good thing! By objectively reexamining my creative output I had to admit it wasn’t my finest work. Now I know what to do next time to improve my YouTube views and avoid the apathetic silence.

I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below….

What have you learned from criticism? What keeps driving you to create music?

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Niklas J. Blixt
Niklas J. Blixt

I agree with you! I think that the point you're trying to make is that if you want more fans you need to give them something that they want. That can be the trickiest part of being a creative artist, you just want to create. But if no one wants to hear or see your content you need to reevaluate and learn from that. It's sometimes hard to do, and it can be like a dagger straight into the chest to realize that what you're trying to do, no one likes. But if you want to survive in this business of music, yes it is a business, you need to think more like a business. Of course you should always try to do stuff that you like to do, but you should always try to be interesting to your potential fans. It is a balancing act indeed, but if you really want it you'll find a way to make it happen. Also I think it's a good idea to surround yourself with people that's willing to give honest and constructive feedback to help you find a way to your goals as a creative person. So the idea of having a team of masterminds, like suggested in this article is great. Hopefully you can help each other.

Neil
Neil

All good points Niklas! Rule number one - make stuff people want. Applies to business as well as art.

Mia
Mia

Is there a choice in allowing those 30 second commercials to play before the video starts? Even those 5 second ones, I know for me, the most impatient person on earth, if a commercial must be played out prior to getting to watch the video, it doesn't matter how good the video is going to be, I click off.....Now I feel bad and I'm sorry :/

Neil
Neil

Yes, Mia. The content producer has the option to turn on advertising for their videos. Many musicians use it as a way to generate income. Don't feel bad - I never watch them either. If I'm forced to watch I'll click over to a different browser and work on something else until I hear that the commercial is over. I have NO patience.

The Legendary Frank
The Legendary Frank

Interesting article. However the article didn't really address the issue. From what I can see on Youtube no matter how professional the vid, no matter how full of the right stuff etc many vids still languish. It's like blogs. Most blogs get one or two comments if they are lucky. Again I've seen excellent blogs and yet apathy reigns. Maybe we're living in an age of utter apathy and bleh where people just can't be arsed to do anything that's beyond their immediate gratification level.

Neil
Neil

You're right Frank. We live in a drive-by culture that doesn't take the time to stop and do anything. That's why I appreciate you taking the time to chime in. :) It's tough to find that special thing that connects with people and gets them to pay attention. But continuing to put yourself out there is a big part of it. There's no such thing as an overnight success.

GS
GS

Love the insight! I never get what I'm looking for out of my projects or have a hard time getting my vision into the minds of other people that are helping me and I always feel my work is sub-par. Any advise on how to share my ideas with my help?

Neil
Neil

Ah! The old communication breakdown. Three tips - 1) over-communicate. Just because you think it's simple doesn't mean others do 2) Use pictures. Give visual examples of your ideas. 3) Follow up. Don't wait until it's all over to see the finished project. Get updates and give feedback regularly. Hope that helps!

Brownie
Brownie

This is all AMAZING advice! It hits really close to home with myself, an independent filmmaker and YouTube creator. Like Neil said, it gets tough when you don't get any feedback at all, and you start to doubt yourself. I did. I had friends that wouldn't watch my videos. It was bad. Being able to have someone to check your ego and make positive creative feedback works wonders! The main thing is, you'll never get better if you don't keep making videos. I still learn new things every time I work on a video project, and I apply what I learn to future projects. That's the key. That's practice. I suggest that everyone utilize what is in this post and keep working hard on your videos, they'll get there! With a coach/mentor/roundtable, and as long as you keep trying and learning, you'll be able to reach people! Again, wonderful article Neil!

Neil
Neil

Thanks, Brownie! I love your comment - "You'll never get better if you don't keep making videos." I kind of danced around it, but I guess that's really what I was trying saying. Dust yourself off and move forward. Life is all about getting better and learning.

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